Christ-Centered Communication – 5 Points

This post is coming about as a result of a haircut. Yes, a simple haircut. I’ve tried several stylists since moving to this area. In talking to my husband about it, we determined I must not be communicating well. I refuse to lay all the blame on the women who have done my hair in this time. It must begin with my words.

The latest was this past week. She gave me an hour appointment so that we could talk about what I wanted. I thought I was clear, but apparently, I was not. For the most part, I like the cut, but she did something we’d talked about her not doing. So, now I have to wait for that part of my hair to grow back out. I’ve been working on this for almost six months. But she will fix what she can next week. Don’t get me wrong, it isn’t bad, it just needs a bit of a tweak to meet my desires. And she’s a sweet, lovely young lady. I know it will be better after my next visit.

Being a good communicator isn’t just about clarity; it’s about grace, truth, and love working together.

5 POINTS:

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SPEAK TRUTH IN LOVE

Scripture tells us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Even when getting a haircut or relaying what we see is wrong and needs to be fixed, it is possible to choose one’s words carefully. Be respectful and loving while explaining the problem. I always take the lion’s share of the blame. This alone already lays the groundwork for a more peaceful interaction.

GOOD COMMUNICATION BEGINS WITH LISTENING

I’m sure we’ve all heard good communication begins with listening. I have ADD. I’m not hyper, but I do have a tendency to interrupt when someone is speaking. If a thought pops into my mind, if I don’t say it right away, I won’t remember it. I’ve apologized more than once for this bad habit. My niece is the best listener I’ve ever known. She doesn’t ever interrupt and stays totally silent while one is speaking to her. I’m working on this, but I doubt I’ll ever be at her level. But all things are possible with God.

KEEP A HUMBLE SPIRIT AND A QUIET TONE

If in a debate about something, always choose the side of humility. Humility is the key to being able to admit when we are wrong. A humble spirit and our quiet and gentle tone speak louder than forceful words.

BE AUTHENTIC AT ALL TIMES

Do you present the authentic you? Our words should reflect the way we live. Our words and actions should be consistent. People will be much more likely to listen when they see authenticity in us.

ULTIMATE GOAL – COMMUNICATE GOD’S CHARACTER

Our ultimate goal is to be not just effective communicators, but faithful ones. Every blog post, conversation, speaking engagement, and yes, even our books, is an opportunity to communicate God’s character: His love, patience, and kindness.

When we and our hearts are rooted in Christ, our words will follow. Our job is to make sure that even when in a simple situation like a not-quite-right haircut, our communication should be filled with grace, truth, and love.

Blessings, y’all!

I have never heard this song. I like it very much and I pray it blesses you!