Working Through the Busyness

by Debra DuPree Williams @DDuPreeWilliams

I don’t know about y’all, but I’m tired. I feel as if I’ve been on a non-stop roller coaster since Thanksgiving. And the tired is just about to catch up with me, as soon as someone lifts the bar and lets me off this ride.

Sometimes life just takes over and we find ourselves in the midst of just too much busyness. And we can’t stop it because we have to do the things we have to do, like it or not. As my beloved niece is fond of saying, it is what it is.


That’s where I’ve found myself the past few weeks. I’ve completed my first novel and I’ve been hard at work on the edits with the best editor out there IMHO. But in the midst of trying to finish the first round of edits, my husband and I had to go from our little villa in Florida to North Carolina where our home there was being renovated.

Moving Nightmares

We moved in on time, at the end of January, but our home wasn’t finished. So . . . we had workers in and out for the entire month of February, just trying to complete last minute tasks. The biggie was building the fireplace mantle then doing it again because it wasn’t right the first time around. Our planned one-week trip turned into an entire month.

Then the stair railing had to be installed. We were still living in the hotel so we weren’t home when that was being done, in fact, we had no clue he was even coming that day. When we walked in that morning we found the rail almost totally installed . . . but it was the wrong color. Since the movers were arriving with our furniture, not having the rail up was a big safety concern, thus, the wrong-color railing was screwed in place. But not without incidence. The installer drilled the screw into the light switch on the opposite side of the stairwell. Fire arced everywhere. Men came running. Cries for the electrician filled the air.

Crisis averted. The current was cut, the wires were capped, and the rail-man finished his job. Two weeks later, the painter returned and painted the rail the color it should have been from the beginning.

Busy, but Writing 
Now, while all of this unfolded, I had audio and video meetings with my editor, and my social media coach. I made the changes my editor and I agreed upon. Per my social media coach’s advice, I worked on a newsletter idea and a gift booklet for my readers once my book is published.

Finally, touch-up painting was completed. With the installation of the new gas logs, the fireplace was finished, then the last ceiling fan was hung in its place. We cleaned, packed up, and headed back to Florida. Three weeks later and we have returned to North Carolina for personal family reasons. Our fourth trip to North Carolina since the beginning of the year.

As you can see, life has been very busy since New Year’s. It hasn’t been easy, but I’ve somehow managed to get out a weekly blog, meet with my editor and do the edits on my novel, meet with my social media coach, and still keep a hungry hubby, and sometimes a son or two, fed and happy.

I imagine I’m like you. Sometimes I don’t know how I do all the things I do. There are days when I just don’t feel like doing anything─days marred with a migraine, or a trip to the dentist where I learn I must have two more root canals. Entire days lost while we make the twelve-hour car trip from the Tampa area to the Asheville area and vice versa.

Called and Committed 
But God called me to be a writer. It isn’t anything I asked for, believe me. If you knew my story, you would know that writer is the last thing I ever thought I’d be. Yet, here I am. And since I know this is a gift from God, there’s no way I’m not doing my part to see it to fulfillment and fruition.

Thus, while I may be worn to an absolute frazzle, I cling to Philippians 4:13, I can do all things through Him who strengthens me. I keep pressing on toward the goal of being a published writer. I turn to God in all that I do. I spend time with Him every day. And I pray about everything and every word I write. Where my work goes from here, like everything else in my life, it’s in God’s hands.

Are you worn out? But do you have things you feel you must do? Want to do? Need to do? Tell us how you get through those tough, busy days.

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